cajole - Master This Word
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cajole Word Meanings
- to persuade someone to do something through flattery
- to coax or influence through gentle persuasion
- to entice by appealing to someone's desires
cajole Example Sentences
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cajole Phonetic & Pronunciation
UK
/kəˈdʒəʊl/
US
/kəˈdʒoʊl/
cajole Word Etymology
ca- (to) + jole (to flatter) from Middle French cajoler → English. Picture someone flattering a friend so sweetly that they can't say no, like a cat purring to get a treat.
Note 1: These definitions and etymologies are not standard dictionary definitions, but extended explanations provided to help with memorization and understanding of the actual application of words. Through this background information, we strive to make words more vivid and easier to understand, and help you remember their meanings in real life.
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Cajole means to persuade someone to do something by flattering them or using gentle, sometimes insincere persuasion. It involves coaxing or appealing to desires more than presenting facts, and the tone can be playful or sly depending on context. You might cajole a friend into joining a plan, a colleague into taking extra work, or a family member into sharing a treat. Learners should note common collocations like cajole into doing something and the potential negative shade when flattery feels excessive. It sits between mild persuasion and manipulation, unlike coercion or a straightforward push to act, and it often implies consent obtained by charm rather than force.
Usage Reminders
- Recognize the soft tone: cajole relies on flattery, not force. Look for the structure cajole into doing something. Use it for light, not serious persuasion. Be aware of a potential negative shade if the compliments feel insincere. Distinguish it from coerce or urge.
Common Misconceptions
- Cajole always means lying; it doesn't have to.
- It is always negative; sometimes it can be lighthearted.
- It cannot be used in professional settings.
- It implies coercion if used once.
- It is the same as coaxing.
Thinking Differences
Explain to an English speaker that cajole blends flattery with soft pressure, often implying manipulation if overdone.
Learning Tips
- Practice with 'into doing something' constructions.
- Note the subtlety: flattery plus soft pressure, not force.
- Differentiate cajole from coax and persuade in tone.
- Watch for context: friendly favors vs. professional asks.
- Beware of negative shading when compliments feel empty.
- Use in informal speech; avoid in serious or formal requests.
5-Step Learning Method - Learn English in English
Step 1: Meaning
What is the meaning of the word 'cajole'?
A.Destroy
B.Sleep
C.Build
D.Persuade
Step 2: Usage
In which sentence is the word 'cajole' used correctly?
A.He cajoled his friend into skipping school.
B.She cajoled the house with paint.
C.They cajoled a delicious meal.
D.The dog cajoled the ball.
Step 3: Similar Words
Which of the following is a synonym for 'cajole'?
A.Force
B.Bribe
C.Convince
D.Ignore
Step 4: Opposite Words
What is the opposite of 'cajole'?
A.Praise
B.Plead
C.Scold
D.Threaten
Step 5: Mastery
When can someone use the word 'cajole' in real life?
A.Driving a car
B.Persuading a friend to try a new hobby
C.Reading a book silently
D.Eating dinner
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