flatter - Master This Word
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flatter Word Meanings
- to praise someone excessively
- to make someone feel good about themselves
- to court someone's favor or approval
flatter Example Sentences
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flatter Phonetic & Pronunciation
UK
/ˈflæt.ə/
US
/ˈflætɚ/
flatter Word Etymology
Root decomposition: flatter (root). Historical origin: Middle English flatteren, from Old French 'flatter', from Latin 'flattere'. Memory image: Imagine a peacock strutting around, showing off its feathers to impress others; much like someone who flatters seeks to impress or gain favor.
Note 1: These definitions and etymologies are not standard dictionary definitions, but extended explanations provided to help with memorization and understanding of the actual application of words. Through this background information, we strive to make words more vivid and easier to understand, and help you remember their meanings in real life.
Note 2: LexiTalk designs the learning flow around the linguistics principle of “Comprehensible Input.” When learners encounter material that is slightly above their level but still understandable from context, the brain naturally absorbs the language. That’s why we keep every word inside authentic contexts, using examples and associations to help you understand it and use it flexibly.
Read the FAQ explanation of Comprehensible InputReal Context
Flatter means to praise someone excessively, often to gain their favor or influence a decision. It can be sincere or insincere, but it usually suggests the praise is aimed at producing a specific outcome rather than simply expressing admiration. In everyday speech you might flatter a host to be invited back, flatter a colleague to win support for a plan, or flatter a boss with compliments about work to feel more secure in your job. The nuance is that flattering comments are often strategic rather than purely kind, and overdoing it can backfire if the person senses manipulation. Learners should distinguish genuine praise from flattery, especially in professional emails or negotiations.
Usage Reminders
- Identify motive behind praise
- Use neutral language in formal writing
- Don’t confuse flattery with sincere appreciation
- Avoid flattery in negotiations unless culturally appropriate
- Balance praise with concrete feedback
- Notice tone and context when someone flatters you
Common Misconceptions
- Flattery is always insincere and manipulative
- Flatter and compliment are exactly the same
- Flattery only happens in formal settings
- All praise intended to influence is bad
- A genuine compliment cannot be strategic
Thinking Differences
Flattery is treated as a social tactic in English with a negative tone when overused; learners often assume any praise is flattery, or miss the distinction between genuine praise and manipulative intent.
Learning Tips
- Set a goal to distinguish sincere praise from flattery
- Notice motive behind compliments in conversations
- Practice rewriting flattery into constructive feedback
- Observe cultural norms around praise in different contexts
- Use specific, genuine praise rather than vague compliments
- Review emails for tone to avoid sounding manipulative
5-Step Learning Method - Learn English in English
Step 1: Meaning
What is the meaning of the word 'flatter'?
A.To criticize
B.To praise insincerely
C.To ignore completely
D.To apologize
Step 2: Usage
Choose the correct sentence using the word 'flatter': She hoped the new dress would __ her figure.
A.a) criticize
B.c) ignore completely
C.b) praise insincerely
D.d) apologize
Step 3: Similar Words
Which word is an antonym of 'flatter'?
A.Demean
B.Encourage
C.Admire
D.Congratulate
Step 4: Opposite Words
In what situation would someone use the word 'flatter'?
A.While receiving an award
B.At a funeral
C.During a job interview
D.During a performance review
Step 5: Mastery
Reflect on a time when you may have flattered someone. How did it make them feel?
A.Embarrassed
B.Indifferent
C.Proud
D.Angry
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