obsequious - Master This Word
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obsequious Word Meanings
- excessively eager to please or obey
- servilely compliant
- submissive in nature
obsequious Example Sentences
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obsequious Phonetic & Pronunciation
UK
/əbˈswiː.kwi.əs/
US
/əbˈswiː.kwi.əs/
obsequious Word Etymology
ob- (toward) + sequi (to follow) → Latin - Old French - English. Imagine a servant relentlessly following their master, always trying to please, bending over backwards with a fake smile.
Note 1: These definitions and etymologies are not standard dictionary definitions, but extended explanations provided to help with memorization and understanding of the actual application of words. Through this background information, we strive to make words more vivid and easier to understand, and help you remember their meanings in real life.
Note 2: LexiTalk designs the learning flow around the linguistics principle of “Comprehensible Input.” When learners encounter material that is slightly above their level but still understandable from context, the brain naturally absorbs the language. That’s why we keep every word inside authentic contexts, using examples and associations to help you understand it and use it flexibly.
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Obsequious describes behavior that is overly eager to please or obey, often in a way that feels fake or self-serving. It captures a posture of servility, where someone bows to every preference, compliments the leader excessively, and avoids offering honest critique. In everyday life, you might hear it used to describe a coworker who agrees with every decision, should be seen as obsequious rather than genuinely helpful. The term carries a negative tone, signaling a lack of sincerity rather than true loyalty. Use it when you want to highlight exaggerated compliance rather than balanced professionalism.
Usage Reminders
- Think of it as over-the-top flattery, not helpful collaboration.
- Distinguish obsequiousness from genuine loyalty or respectful conduct.
- Politeness is not the same as servility.
- Be mindful of power dynamics when describing someone.
- If the flattery is obvious, it probably crosses the line into obsequiousness.
Common Misconceptions
- It just means being nice; not a problem in the workplace.
- It only applies to bosses; coworkers aren’t affected by it.
- Being obsequious is the same as being loyal or respectful.
- If you’re a good team player, you’ll naturally be obsequious.
- It indicates bribery or corruption rather than attitude.
Thinking Differences
In English, obsequiousness is often contrasted with genuine kindness and professional assertiveness. Learners may over-apply politeness as if it were true loyalty, or they may confuse flattery with supportive collaboration. Native speakers expect a balance: respectful behavior without sacrificing honesty or critical thinking.
Learning Tips
- Compare phrases: polite vs obsequious, note tone differences.
- Watch power dynamics in workplace scenes.
- Practice with critique: include a candid, constructive comment.
- Use sparingly; overuse signals insincerity.
- Pair with verbs that imply willful compliance (agree, flatter, defer).
- Check context: is the speaker describing a negative attitude?
5-Step Learning Method - Learn English in English
Step 1: Meaning
What is the meaning of the word 'obsequious'?
A.Proud
B.Servile
C.Courageous
D.Eloquent
Step 2: Usage
Which of the following sentences uses the word 'obsequious' correctly?
A.They showed obsequious empathy towards the homeless.
B.She was loud and obsequious during the meeting.
C.The cat was very obsequious while playing.
D.He was obsequious to his rude boss.
Step 3: Similar Words
What is a synonym for 'obsequious'?
A.Humble
B.Arrogant
C.Rebellious
D.Generous
Step 4: Opposite Words
What is an antonym for 'obsequious'?
A.Obedient
B.Submissive
C.Assertive
D.Respectful
Step 5: Mastery
In what real-life context would someone be described as 'obsequious'?
A.A firefighter bravely rescuing people from a burning building.
B.A chef confidently presenting a new dish at a restaurant.
C.A student constantly buttering up the teacher for better grades.
D.A scientist conducting experiments in a lab.
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