obsess - Master This Word
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obsess Word Meanings
- to be preoccupied with something
- to think about something constantly
- to have an excessive attachment or obsession with something
obsess Example Sentences
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obsess Phonetic & Pronunciation
UK
/əbˈsɛs/
US
/əbˈsɛs/
obsess Word Etymology
ob- = against + sess = sit. Originated from Latin through Old French to English. Imagine someone sitting at a desk, unable to leave because their thoughts are trapped there like a heavy weight, fixated on a single idea.
Note 1: These definitions and etymologies are not standard dictionary definitions, but extended explanations provided to help with memorization and understanding of the actual application of words. Through this background information, we strive to make words more vivid and easier to understand, and help you remember their meanings in real life.
Note 2: LexiTalk designs the learning flow around the linguistics principle of “Comprehensible Input.” When learners encounter material that is slightly above their level but still understandable from context, the brain naturally absorbs the language. That’s why we keep every word inside authentic contexts, using examples and associations to help you understand it and use it flexibly.
Read the FAQ explanation of Comprehensible InputEnglish Brain Route
First I push away the usual distractions and move my attention to one stubborn thought. I hold it in front of me, then shift and turn it over, adjusting the pace as it tightens. It pulls my actions forward and I keep returning to it, trying not to let it wander. The moment of control feels like setting a small seed in soil and watching what grows.
Real Context
Obsess is a strong verb meaning to be preoccupied with something to an unhealthy extent. In everyday speech we say someone 'obsesses over' or 'obsesses about' a topic, person, or problem, and the focus tends to push other concerns aside. The emphasis is on repeated, intrusive thoughts rather than ordinary interest. Use is normally negative or cautionary: we blame or warn when someone is unable to stop thinking about something. It contrasts with simply caring a lot or enjoying something; with obsession there is a sense of compulsion and persistence. Note that 'obsess over' and 'obsess about' are largely interchangeable, but the preposition can affect nuance and emphasis.
Usage Reminders
- Remember that obsession is usually negative; use with care. Use over or about to show what is being fixated on. Not every strong interest qualifies as an obsession. Pair with nouns or gerunds (obsess over details, obsess about mistakes). Usually avoid with people unless you mean a harmful fixation. The noun form is obsession, for discussing the state rather than the action.
Common Misconceptions
- Obsession equals strong interest; it is not just liking something a lot.
- You can always replace obsession with normal focus or enthusiasm without changing meaning.
- Obsess over/about is interchangeable with focus or care in all contexts.
- You can obsess a person directly as a transitive verb.
- Obsess is a casual everyday positive term.
Thinking Differences
English often marks obsession with a clear object using over/about with a negative, cautionary tone; learners should use phrasal verbs correctly and avoid milder synonyms when the context implies compulsion.
Learning Tips
- Use over vs. about to show where the fixation centers (obsess over details, obsessed about a rumor).
- Pair with a noun or gerund to express the specific focus (obsess over a problem).
- Remember the negative connotation; avoid casual praise in formal writing.
- Suffix with -ion to discuss the state: obsession.
- Practice with both people and things, noting how it changes the nuance.
- Read and listen for collocations in context rather than translating literally.
5-Step Learning Method - Learn English in English
Step 1: Meaning
What is the definition of 'obsess'?
A.To ignore something entirely
B.To think about something constantly or repeatedly
C.To enjoy something occasionally
D.To lose interest in something
Step 2: Usage
Which sentence uses 'obsess' correctly?
A.They are obsessing to finish the project quickly.
B.He will obsess the movie if it gets too long.
C.She tends to obsess over her grades every semester.
D.I obsess and sometimes neglect my health.
Step 3: Similar Words
Which word is a synonym for 'obsess'?
A.Neglect
B.Dismiss
C.Preoccupy
D.Outline
Step 4: Opposite Words
What is an antonym for 'obsess'?
A.Focus
B.Engage
C.Disregard
D.Claim
Step 5: Mastery
Can you think of a real-life context where someone might obsess about something?
A.A student constantly checking their phone for messages during study hours.
B.A person spending hours researching a hobby they love.
C.Someone not really caring about their appearance before an event.
D.A chef closely following a recipe without improvising.
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