bother - Master This Word
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bother Word Meanings
- to disturb or annoy someone
- to take the trouble to do something
- to worry or concern oneself
bother Example Sentences
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bother Phonetic & Pronunciation
UK
/ˈbɒðə/
US
/ˈbɑːðər/
bother Word Etymology
bother = bothe + -er; from Old English 'byðrian', which means to worry or disturb. Picture someone being so restless that they can't sit still, always fidgeting, making others uneasy.
Note 1: These definitions and etymologies are not standard dictionary definitions, but extended explanations provided to help with memorization and understanding of the actual application of words. Through this background information, we strive to make words more vivid and easier to understand, and help you remember their meanings in real life.
Note 2: LexiTalk designs the learning flow around the linguistics principle of “Comprehensible Input.” When learners encounter material that is slightly above their level but still understandable from context, the brain naturally absorbs the language. That’s why we keep every word inside authentic contexts, using examples and associations to help you understand it and use it flexibly.
Read the FAQ explanation of Comprehensible InputEnglish Brain Route
On the bus, I shift in my seat and move my bag closer to my chest so I don’t bother the person beside me. I lower my voice and breathe slowly, feeling a touch of worry about being annoying. Then I bother to send a quick text, taking the trouble to make it clear, and I force a small smile as I press send. That little sequence of adjustments tells me how bother is lived: it’s a quiet choice to balance care with the moment.
Real Context
Bother is a versatile verb that covers several related ideas: to disturb or annoy someone, to take the trouble to do something, or to worry or concern oneself. In everyday speech we often use 'don’t bother' to tell someone not to waste time, and 'bother to do something' to indicate effort is involved. It can appear in questions and polite requests, and its tone ranges from mild irritation to courteous restraint depending on the context. Learners should note that British and American usage are similar but occasionally differ in politeness and intensity.
Usage Reminders
- • Remember three main senses: disturb/annoy, take the trouble to do something, and worry yourself.
- • Use 'don’t bother' to tell someone not to waste time.
- • Use 'bother to do something' to show you are making an effort.
- • Be mindful of the tone: polite vs. blunt.
- • Distinguish active 'bother' from passive 'be bothered.'
- • Practice common collocations: bother someone, bother to do something, not bother.
Common Misconceptions
- It's not always strong or angry; bother often signals mild irritation or politeness.
- 'Don't bother' is a gentle way to tell someone not to waste their time, not a command to feel offended.
- 'Bother to do something' is a fixed phrase indicating effort; avoid 'bother doing' in that sense.
- 'Be bothered' is passive and means feeling troubled, not performing the action of bothering someone.
- Don't assume bother equals 'worry' in every context; worry is a separate nuance.
Thinking Differences
Explain to an English speaker (meta, keep short)
Learning Tips
- Practice the three core senses in short dialogues.
- Use Don't bother in polite refusals.
- Try 'bother to do something' with actions requiring effort.
- Differentiate be bothered (feel) vs bother (act).
- Notice collocations: bother someone, bother to do something.
- Compare British and American usage to tune formality.
5-Step Learning Method - Learn English in English
Step 1: Meaning
What is the meaning of the word 'bother'?
A.A kind gesture
B.Annoy or cause inconvenience to
C.Observe carefully
D.Goof off
Step 2: Usage
In which of the following sentences is 'bother' used correctly?
A.She bothered the opportunity to help a stranger.
B.He bothered the beautiful sunset.
C.I bother important tasks everyday.
D.Please bother me with any questions you may have.
Step 3: Similar Words
Which word is most similar to 'bother'?
A.Ignore
B.Compliment
C.Irritate
D.Encourage
Step 4: Opposite Words
Which word is the opposite of 'bother'?
A.Confound
B.Delight
C.Boast
D.Forget
Step 5: Mastery
When a friend cancels plans last minute, it can be a _______.
A.Joy
B.Pleasure
C.Bother
D.Comfort
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