cajolery - Master This Word
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cajolery Word Meanings
- flattering speech to persuade someone
- coaxing or persuading someone through deceiving or teasing
- a form of sweet talk
cajolery Example Sentences
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cajolery Phonetic & Pronunciation
UK
/kəˈdʒɒləri/
US
/kəˈdʒoʊləri/
cajolery Word Etymology
Root: 'cajoler' (to coax) + suffix '-ery' (a noun-forming suffix). Historical Origin: From Middle French 'cajoler', related to 'cajole'. Memory Image: Imagine a smooth-talking dealer persuading a customer to buy something they don't need with sweet words and a fake smile.
Note 1: These definitions and etymologies are not standard dictionary definitions, but extended explanations provided to help with memorization and understanding of the actual application of words. Through this background information, we strive to make words more vivid and easier to understand, and help you remember their meanings in real life.
Note 2: LexiTalk designs the learning flow around the linguistics principle of “Comprehensible Input.” When learners encounter material that is slightly above their level but still understandable from context, the brain naturally absorbs the language. That’s why we keep every word inside authentic contexts, using examples and associations to help you understand it and use it flexibly.
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Cajolery is the act of using flattering speech to persuade someone, often by softening resistance through charm, honeyed words, or teasing. It can be overtly manipulative or playfully social, depending on the relationship and situation. You might hear a salesperson deploy cajolery to nudge a customer toward a purchase, a colleague coaxing a friend to take on a risky task, or a politician sweetening a proposal to win support. The term usually carries a negative or skeptical nuance, signaling that the speaker is more interested in getting agreement than in honest argument. Learners should recognize when tone, insinuation, or flattery crosses into manipulation and choose clearer, respectful language instead.
Usage Reminders
- Be aware that cajolery implies manipulation
- Count the tone and relationship when you hear flattery
- Use clearer, direct language in formal settings
- Distinguish flattery from sincere persuasion
- Avoid relying on promises you cannot keep
- Recognize the difference between social charm and ethical persuasion
Common Misconceptions
- Cajolery is just polite flirting, not manipulation
- Flattery always works and is harmless
- Cajolery is the same as persuasion
- If someone is flattering you, they must be honest
- Cajolery only happens in sales or politics
Thinking Differences
A quick note for English learners: cajolery is almost always negative in English contexts, signaling manipulation rather than sincere persuasion; avoid using it in formal writing and interviews unless you’re illustrating a negative trait or irony.
Learning Tips
- Practice distinguishing flattery from sincere persuasion in real dialogues
- Create contrast sentences with and without cajolery
- Watch for tone and context clues that signal manipulation
- Use clear, direct language in professional settings
- Keep a small glossary of synonyms like flattery, sweet-talk, and coaxing
5-Step Learning Method - Learn English in English
Step 1: Meaning
What does 'cajolery' mean?
A.A scientific process
B.A type of fabric
C.Flattery or persuasion through gentle and persistent efforts
D.A form of punishment
Step 2: Usage
Which sentence uses 'cajolery' correctly?
A.She used cajolery to convince him to lend her money.
B.His cajolery led him to win the marathon.
C.The artist's cajolery was evident in the painting.
D.They listened to her cajolery during the lecture.
Step 3: Similar Words
Which word is most similar to 'cajolery'?
A.Coercion
B.Flattery
C.Neglect
D.Sincerity
Step 4: Opposite Words
What is the opposite of 'cajolery'?
A.Command
B.Manipulation
C.Encouragement
D.Support
Step 5: Mastery
Can you think of a real-life scenario where someone used flattery to achieve their goals?
A.A manager giving a stern lecture to an employee about their performance.
B.A child convincing their parent to buy a toy by complimenting their cooking.
C.A speaker delivering an inspiring talk at a conference.
D.A person ignoring a friend's request for help.
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