complaisance - Master This Word
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complaisance Word Meanings
- willingness to please others
- gracious politeness
- compliance with others’ desires
complaisance Example Sentences
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complaisance Phonetic & Pronunciation
UK
/kəmˈpleɪzəns/
US
/kəmˈpleɪzəns/
complaisance Word Etymology
(a) Root decomposition: com- (with) + plaisance (pleasing). (b) Historical origin: from Latin 'complacentia' → Old French 'complaisance' → English. (c) Memory image: Imagine a person gracefully serving others while smiling, embodying the essence of being agreeable and accommodating.
Note 1: These definitions and etymologies are not standard dictionary definitions, but extended explanations provided to help with memorization and understanding of the actual application of words. Through this background information, we strive to make words more vivid and easier to understand, and help you remember their meanings in real life.
Note 2: LexiTalk designs the learning flow around the linguistics principle of “Comprehensible Input.” When learners encounter material that is slightly above their level but still understandable from context, the brain naturally absorbs the language. That’s why we keep every word inside authentic contexts, using examples and associations to help you understand it and use it flexibly.
Read the FAQ explanation of Comprehensible InputReal Context
Complaisance is the quality of being eager to please others, often accompanied by good manners, tact, and a pleasant demeanor. It describes a gentle willingness to accommodate others’ preferences, sometimes at the expense of one’s own interests. In usage, it can convey sincere politeness and helpfulness, but it can also suggest a subordinate or overly obliging attitude. The word carries a neutral to slightly positive tone in many contexts, yet in some situations it implies a lack of assertiveness or independence. In practice, a complaisant person smooths interactions by listening, yielding when reasonable, and expressing courtesy even in difficult conversations.
Usage Reminders
- Be mindful that complaisance can read as kindness or as weakness; balance is key. Distinguish genuine consideration from unhelpful capitulation. Use polite language, but pair with clear boundaries when needed. Not every courteous gesture is complaisance. Compare with humility and with assertiveness in tense moments. Practice tailoring your response to the situation and the relationship.
Common Misconceptions
- It means always agreeing with others
- It is the same as being servile
- It equals politeness alone
- It cannot involve speaking up
- It is a negative trait in all contexts
Thinking Differences
Complaisance in English often carries a neutral-to-positive tone about accommodating others, but learners should watch for over-accommodation that undercuts self-advocacy.
Learning Tips
- Practice identifying contexts that require courtesy vs. assertion
- Pair compliments with clear boundaries
- Listen actively but speak up when necessary
- Compare complaisance with humility and with assertiveness
- Use role-plays to test different responses
- Read examples in varied tones (neutral, positive, negative)
5-Step Learning Method - Learn English in English
Step 1: Meaning
What is the meaning of the word 'complaisance'?
A.A tendency to be shy and quiet
B.A lack of interest or enthusiasm
C.A disposition to please or oblige
D.An inclination to argue and disagree
Step 2: Usage
How is 'complaisance' used in a sentence?
A.Their complaisance led to a heated argument.
B.He showed his complaisance by aggressively demanding what he wanted.
C.Her complaisance made her an excellent negotiator.
D.I was surprised by his complaisance when he refused to help.
Step 3: Similar Words
Which word is most similar to 'complaisance'?
A.Obstinacy
B.Skepticism
C.Amiability
D.Aggressiveness
Step 4: Opposite Words
What is the opposite of 'complaisance'?
A.Docility
B.Uncooperativeness
C.Agreeableness
D.Acquiescence
Step 5: Mastery
Can you think of a real-life context that demonstrates the meaning of 'complaisance'?
A.When someone always refuses to help others nobody likes them.
B.Being unyielding in negotiations often leads to successful outcomes.
C.A colleague's willingness to assist everyone in the office can create a supportive atmosphere.
D.An employee's insistence on strict adherence to policies can foster a rigid team culture.
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