demure - Master This Word
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demure Word Meanings
- Reserved or modest in behavior or appearance.
- Shy in a way that is attractive or charming.
- Exhibiting a quiet or subdued demeanor.
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demure Phonetic & Pronunciation
UK
/dɪˈmjʊə/
US
/dɪˈmjʊr/
demure Word Etymology
From the root 'de-' (down, away) + 'mure' (from Latin 'murus', meaning wall). The word historically implies being 'behind the wall,' suggesting a sense of modesty. Imagine a shy flower blooming behind a protective wall of leaves.
Note 1: These definitions and etymologies are not standard dictionary definitions, but extended explanations provided to help with memorization and understanding of the actual application of words. Through this background information, we strive to make words more vivid and easier to understand, and help you remember their meanings in real life.
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Demure is an adjective used to describe someone who is reserved or modest in behavior or appearance, often with a gentle, unobtrusive charm. A demure person might choose subdued colors, quiet gestures, and soft mannerisms rather than drawing attention. The sense of shy appeal can be attractive, as a demure smile hints at warmth without being loud. In many social settings, demure conveys a classic restraint rather than timidity; it can suggest self-possession and politeness. Historically, the word comes from de- (down, away) and mure (wall), implying 'behind the wall'—as if a small blossom hides shyly behind a protective screen. This nuance is valued in traditional, formal contexts, though perceived as old-fashioned in casual speech.
Usage Reminders
- Know the nuance: Reserved but not shy; used for calm elegance. Avoid implying dullness. Collocations: demure dress, demure smile, demure manner. Pair with positive nouns: demure charm, demure elegance. Moderate tone in formal writing. Not interchangeable with shy or timid.
Common Misconceptions
- Mistaking demure for shyness or timidity.
- Thinking it implies dullness or lack of personality.
- Using demure to describe loud fashion or bold behavior.
- Confusing it with prudishness in casual contexts.
- Assuming it is negative in all settings.
Thinking Differences
English speakers often value subtlety and associate demure with refined politeness; mistakes come from thinking it equals old-fashioned or negative. Learners may avoid discussing anything vivid, missing opportunities to describe tasteful restraint in modern contexts.
Learning Tips
- Practice with synonyms: reserved, modest, restrained.
- Note the positive connotations in formal contexts.
- Compare with shy and timid to spot subtle differences.
- Use with nouns like charm, elegance, demeanor.
- Pay attention to collocations (demure dress, demure smile).
- Read formal descriptions to see tone and nuance.
5-Step Learning Method - Learn English in English
Step 1: Meaning
What is the meaning of 'demure'?
A.Shy
B.Tall
C.Fast
D.Happy
Step 2: Usage
In which sentence is 'demure' used correctly?
A.She was loud and demure at the party.
B.The demure dog barked loudly at the mailman.
C.The demure flower bloomed brightly in the sun.
D.His demure personality shined through during the speech.
Step 3: Similar Words
Which word is a synonym of 'demure'?
A.Confident
B.Outgoing
C.Reserved
D.Bold
Step 4: Opposite Words
Which word is an antonym of 'demure'?
A.Extravagant
B.Shy
C.Modest
D.Subtle
Step 5: Mastery
In what context would someone be described as 'demure'?
A.Running a marathon in record time
B.Partying loudly with friends
C.Giving a quiet and thoughtful presentation
D.Laughing uncontrollably at a comedy show
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