ashamed - Master This Word
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ashamed Word Meanings
- feeling guilty or embarrassed about something
- feeling self-conscious about a failure
- having a sense of dishonor
ashamed Example Sentences
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ashamed Phonetic & Pronunciation
UK
/əˈʃeɪmd/
US
/əˈʃeɪmd/
ashamed Word Etymology
The root is 'shame' (from Old English 'sceamu') + the suffix '-ed' denoting a state. It comes from Old English, through Germanic roots into Modern English. Imagine standing in front of a crowd, head down, feeling the weight of your mistakes and the heat of embarrassment.
Note 1: These definitions and etymologies are not standard dictionary definitions, but extended explanations provided to help with memorization and understanding of the actual application of words. Through this background information, we strive to make words more vivid and easier to understand, and help you remember their meanings in real life.
Note 2: LexiTalk designs the learning flow around the linguistics principle of “Comprehensible Input.” When learners encounter material that is slightly above their level but still understandable from context, the brain naturally absorbs the language. That’s why we keep every word inside authentic contexts, using examples and associations to help you understand it and use it flexibly.
Read the FAQ explanation of Comprehensible InputEnglish Brain Route
I shift my weight and settle my hands, a small move to steady the tremor. Heat climbs to my cheeks as I realize I dropped the ball and the room seems to tilt. I push back pride, set my jaw, and hold still while I decide what to do next. That awkward feeling of being ashamed grows, turning into a cue that guides my actions in the moments to come.
Real Context
ashamed describes a strong feeling of guilt, embarrassment, or self-disapproval in response to something one did or failed to do. It goes beyond mild shame, often prompting a wish to apologize, explain, or make amends. This emotion can arise after a public mistake, a broken promise, or when one believes they have betrayed personal or cultural norms. In everyday life, someone might feel ashamed when they realize their actions caused harm, or when they fear judgment from others. Unlike simply feeling sad, ashamed carries a sense of personal responsibility and a reluctance to be seen as the kind of person who would do such things.
Usage Reminders
- Use ashamed with moral or personal responsibility, not just general sadness. Recognize the usual prepositions: ashamed of, ashamed to (less common). Do not confuse with embarrassed, which is more about feeling self-conscious in a specific situation. Pair with apology or repair when appropriate. Avoid overusing in trivial matters; save for real mistakes or harm.
Common Misconceptions
- ashamed = embarrassed in all cases
- ashamed = proud or confident
- ashamed only happens after major crimes
- ashamed always leads to apology
- ashamed and guilt are the same
Thinking Differences
In English, ashamed highlights a personal moral judgment and concern about others' opinions; learners often mix it with embarrassed or guilty in non-moral fits.
Learning Tips
- Note the preposition: ashamed of something/someone; not ashamed to admit mistakes in conversation.
- Distinguish ashamed from embarrassed (moral vs situational).
- Pair with an apology or action to repair when appropriate.
- Practice with both personal and public scenarios.
- Avoid using ashamed for minor slips; reserve for meaningful faults.
- Check collocations with 'ashamed of' + noun or gerund.
5-Step Learning Method - Learn English in English
Step 1: Meaning
What is the meaning of the word 'ashamed'?
A.Joyful
B.Embarrassed
C.Hungry
D.Excited
Step 2: Usage
Which sentence uses the word 'ashamed' correctly?
A.They lost the game and felt ashamed of their loss.
B.She passed the test and felt ashamed of her success.
C.He won the race, but felt ashamed of his victory.
D.I painted a beautiful picture and felt ashamed of my talent.
Step 3: Similar Words
Which word is most similar to 'ashamed'?
A.Anxious
B.Cautious
C.Proud
D.Confused
Step 4: Opposite Words
What is the opposite of 'ashamed'?
A.Confident
B.Guilty
C.Unsure
D.Terrified
Step 5: Mastery
Can you think of a real-life scenario of feeling 'ashamed'?
A.Winning a competition and feeling proud
B.Getting a promotion and feeling happy
C.Making a mistake and feeling embarrassed
D.Completing a challenging task and feeling relieved
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